Radical Love

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As Jesus brings this section of the Sermon on the Mount to a close, he gets deeply personal. He moves from talking about anger and honesty to something that cuts even deeper: how we treat the people who have wronged us and whether we're willing to love the people who make it hardest.

He gives two of his most memorable images—turning the other cheek and going the extra mile—and then lands on a command so counterintuitive it almost sounds unreasonable: Love your enemies.

This wasn't a spiritual platitude. It was a direct challenge to the way his listeners thought about relationships, justice, and self-preservation. And it still is.

Read Matthew 5:38–48, and notice which part of it pushes back against something inside you.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

REFLECT

Most of us have a short list.

You probably know what it is. Maybe you've never said it out loud, but somewhere in the back of your mind there's a name, a type of person, or a group of people you've quietly decided doesn't deserve your love.

Maybe it's someone who hurt you deeply, someone on the other side of a political divide, an ex, a family member, or someone who represents something that feels threatening or wrong. Whatever the reason, the result is the same: a wall goes up, and love stops there.

Here's the uncomfortable truth: that's completely normal. It's human. And it's exactly what Jesus is addressing.

He says it plainly: "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:43–44).

This wasn't a suggestion or a nice-sounding ideal reserved for especially spiritual people. It was a direct challenge to the cultural logic of his day—and ours.

The world says to love the people who love you back, protect yourself from those who don't, and if someone wrongs you, get even. That's not just the message of culture. For many of us, it feels like wisdom. It feels like survival.

But Jesus invites us to something different.

Earlier in the passage, he paints two vivid pictures: turning the other cheek and going the extra mile (vv. 39, 41). These weren't passive commands to tolerate abuse or pretend injustice doesn't matter. In the culture of first-century Palestine, they were quiet acts of dignity and courage—ways of refusing to let someone else's cruelty determine how you would respond.

It's the posture of someone who has decided, I won't let what you've done to me determine who I become.

That's not weakness. That's a different kind of strength.

Then Jesus sharpens the contrast even more: "If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that?" (v. 46).

In other words, loving people who are easy to love isn't what sets followers of Jesus apart. Anyone can do that.

What makes the love of Jesus different is what it does with difficult people—the ones who don't deserve it, the ones who may never return it.

That kind of love is different in kind, not just degree. It doesn't come naturally, and it isn't something we can manufacture through willpower. It's the overflow of trusting that God sees, God is just, and God's love for us has never depended on our performance.

When we're rooted in that truth, we no longer have to protect ourselves by withholding love. We can afford to be generous—even with people who don't deserve it—because our identity isn't at stake.

So here's the question Jesus is really asking:

Who are you unwilling to love—and what might that reveal about your trust in God?

That question isn't meant to shame you. It's meant to help you recognize where God wants to meet you.

Wherever love feels impossible is often where God is doing some of his deepest work. The people we're most unwilling to love often reveal the places where we still need God's grace ourselves.

The good news is that Jesus isn't asking you to manufacture feelings you don't have. He's simply inviting you to take one faithful step.

Pray for them.

Start there.

Let God do what only he can do.

RESPOND

Take a moment to process what God might be leading you to do in light of what you read.

• Is there someone in your life—or a type of person—you've quietly decided doesn't deserve your love or kindness? What would one small step toward them look like this week?

• Jesus connects loving our enemies with trusting God. Where is it difficult for you to trust him enough to let go of the need to protect yourself or get even?

• Think about someone who has loved you when you didn't deserve it. How did that change you? How might that same kind of love, extended through you, impact someone else?

REST

Take a moment to rest in God’s presence and consider one thing you can take away from your time reading, then close your devotional experience by praying:

Father, thank you for loving me long before I deserved it and for never making your love conditional on what I do. Soften the places in my heart that have grown hard toward people who are difficult to love, and give me the courage to pray for those I'd rather avoid. Teach me to trust you enough to loosen my grip on self-protection, knowing that you are the one who sees and the one who is just. Make me someone whose love reflects yours—generous, unexpected, and a little bit scandalous. Amen.