Over the centuries, people have used the Bible to justify many harmful and hurtful practices. These “leaders” abuse the authority given to them to act however they want. A loose handling of a book built on reconciliation and unity creates a deeper divide…

Division and discord seem like apt descriptions for the world we live in right now. Name an issue and almost instantly fights, quarrels and arguments break out. An "US vs. THEM" mentality has taken over our culture. To get everyone to agree on just a single point feels like an impossible task…

When discussing the topic of influence, the focus often remains on sharpening our leadership skills. Without even knowing it, this mindset places us on shaky ground…

When troubles come my way, glee is not my default response…

Have you ever read a sentence that is wordy and overwhelming? Well, today’s verse is actually one entire sentence full of intense words and phrases. Typically, sentences like this rack my brain, so in order to better understand it, I break it down from comma to comma…

In the midst of the hurry, we miss teachable moments of growth. We run at a breakneck speed in hopes of manufacturing maturity through our strength and effort. The pace many of us are going at is not sustainable. But, the need for solitude speaks to something more profound…

Despite what the non-morning people might believe, 5:00 am is better than 5:00 pm. I do not say this to spark controversy; it is just a personal preference. On the other hand, my wife Denise plays for the other team, which required us to establish morning rules in our family…

I grew up around cars. My dad works for Bob King as a part-time salesman. So, when I was younger, he was always showing me cool mechanical tricks and cars we could not afford. That was so many years ago, and I do not think anyone can truly believe how far automobiles have come…

Since they were young, my wife and I have worked diligently to instill a generous spirit in our girls. Now, teenagers, we see our investment pay off as both have a heart for the needs of others. However, this hasn't always been the case…

Having a birthday in late November, I have a love-hate relationship with decorating for Christmas. We wait until after November 28th to put up our decorations, and we take them down by January 1st to start the new year with a clean and organized house…

Even though many of us want to impact this world, we tend to struggle when it comes to pinpointing the gifts and resources we have at our disposal. After all, our own worst critic tends to be ourselves…

I have only gotten into one fight my entire life. Now, if you know me, you understand how bizarre this statement is, but it is true! I was 8 years old, at a youth camp, and it was over a basketball…

Being outnumbered by women in my household means I watch a lot of HGTV. Don't let them know this, but I secretly enjoy watching all those home renovation shows, especially ones that have "tiny" somewhere in their title…

In those moments of weakness, we've all wondered if change is indeed possible. Can something awkward ever become a normal reaction? 

An outdoorsman, I am not. Growing up in the suburbs didn't afford me many opportunities to enjoy the great outdoors. I have gone fishing exactly once in my entire life, and it was an utter disaster…

Doubt. Questions. Hang-ups. Concerns. Hesitation.

Often these feelings and emotions are looked down upon in the “Church” world. Rock-solid believers don’t have questions, and they never waver in their faith, or at least that’s what we assume. ..

I feel as though this season has been slowly chipping away at my energy. Every day seems to introduce something else that wears away at our joy. Our world is in chaos with COVID, civil unrest, economic uncertainty, people fighting for justice, and don't forget it's an election year to boot. ..

I remember my first day of 6th grade at Trask Middle School here in Wilmington, NC. I was late for my first class, I had no idea what I was doing or where I was going, and my biggest fear was being embarrassed in front of all my friends because I didn’t know how to use the combination lock on my locker…

One can have all the answers, yet still not be free. "Going deeper" is dangerous waters when one finds themselves drowning in the shallow end of faith not lived out…

Growing up, one of my favorite games to play was Hide and Seek. It started when I was a toddler attempting to hide from dad. As he would begin to count, I'd giggle and try to find a place to hide, typically ending up underneath a blanket, inside a closet, or behind a sofa (with my feet hanging out)…