Career Day
With a briefcase in hand and swimming in a suit two or three sizes too big, I stood in front of my first-grade class and announced my intentions: I want to be a K-Mart manager when I grow up. Understandably so, laughter, groans, and snickering broke out…
The Hardest Lesson
Before I started my relationship with Jesus, still in college, I read this scripture through the lens of "Jesus forgives us no matter what, so why are Christians so hung up on making people who are living differently than them feel bad…
Pick Up Your Mat
Jesus performed many miracles and today's story highlights one of those. There was a man who had been paralyzed for 38 years. He was near a pool that he believed could help him, but he could not get into the water…
Three Big Words
Have you ever gotten rusty in a hobby or activity you enjoy? Of course, you have! It is normal for people to go through seasons where hobbies or activities take the back burner. Denise and I have a 6-month-old and when I get my 2-3 workouts in a week, I am often reminded how rusty and behind I am…
A Spacious Place
My daughter is getting to the age where she wants to ride a bike. Maybe it's because she is our firstborn, or perhaps it's just her personality, but I wouldn't describe her as a risk-taker. She thinks things through and is overly careful; she even tries to convince others that they need to be more cautious…
Launch Your Net
I watched as my dad talked my son through gathering the rope, then the weighted net, and how to hold it just right. He would show him, then pass him the net. They did this back and forth a few times until my dad thought my son had a good grasp of how to hold it…
So Much More
No matter how much I pleaded and begged to help make dinner, my mom's standard answer was "Watch me, and you'll learn."
Watch?! No! That was no fun at all! Why couldn't I just get my hands in? Was she afraid I'd mess it up? I grew up thinking, "I'm just a kid. I guess I can't do stuff like that…
Simply Rest
In Matthew 11, Jesus tells us “Come to me, all who are weary and heavy burdened, and I will give you rest.” A simple statement that I have over complicated by thinking it requires more than just being…
Came to Our Rescue
Sitting on top of my fireplace mantle is a breathtaking picture of the North Carolina mountains that's near and dear to my heart. I didn't snap the photo, haven't had the opportunity to take in this serene view, and couldn't tell you the towns it overlooks. But, for me, it serves as a reminder that small acts of mercy can have profound impacts…
Run Your Race
Four years ago, around this time actually, I signed up for a mission trip to Guatemala for that coming October. I was nervous and excited - but torn. My grandma was newly sick, and her prognosis was not easy to accept…
Honor Competition
I am one for some fun competition. Whether it be video games, sports, trivia, or any other avenue, competition can be a great way to build relationships and have fun! I have noticed that because of my past I must check myself when playing basketball to remind myself I do not “have” to win, though I do enjoy it…
A Supernatural Bond
Night after night, I remind my son before bedtime that when he came into this world, it was supernatural. He promptly concurs saying…
In Our Darkest Moments
Tough seasons of life come with the territory of living in a fallen world. At one time or another, we all face adversity, tragedy, difficulty, or strife. Overwhelmed and disheartened, life can feel as if darkness surrounds us. Darkness is anything that hides or conceals light and keeps us stumbling through our days…
Prepare Your Mind
Letting our minds wander causes us to go down trails of thoughts we never intended to tread on. When our thoughts run free, we make ourselves vulnerable. Proverbs 25:28 says that a person without self-control is as defenseless as a city with broken-down walls. Each of us must have a way of dealing with the world when it doesn't make sense…
Settle into the Story
Summer is upon us! We are stocking up on sunscreen, with visions of sand & surf. It's time for backyard BBQs, pool parties and family vacations. Ahh, the family vacation... memories of the summer I turned 11 drift back to me…
What A Friend We Have
Friends are game changers in this life. So much beauty, excitement and growth come from having solid friends. But there’s a trial season to eventually get to friendship. Now, if you knew me, you would know that once I say hello to you…
Don’t Be Oscar
You never know what you will come across when you read the “In Other News” section found near the back pages of most newspapers. This is the place where tidbits of strange happenings make their home. They often tell of random events that don’t seem to fit anywhere else, but in the place labeled ‘other.’ If you ever find yourself in a bad mood, I’d suggest picking up your daily paper and reading this section…
Just Dance
"Daddy needs to rest a bit." As I gasped for air, drenched in sweat, I attempted to come to terms with my defeat. My daughter extended her hand to me with a grin draped across her face. She now held the title of "Just Dance" video game champion for our family. Even though I attempted to blame a malfunctioning Wii controller, the issue was obvious: I had two left feet…
Put Together
I have a love and hate relationship with IKEA. They satisfy my belly with Swedish meatballs, but they frustrate my mind with their elaborate directions and Allen wrenches. One needs an engineering degree if they have any hope of assembling a simple bookshelf correctly. The allure of their reasonable prices bumps up against the tension of their "easy" ready-to-assemble furniture…